When writing blogs feels like a admission of failure: How we have failed the women of India!

One of the states that has always claimed to be at the forefront of education and women’s empowerment comes the news of a gangrape of a medical student out with her friend. It tears apart the facade of West Bengal, which has lagged in all parameters, be it economic or otherwise, but always claimed to be intellectually superior and the safest place to live. This is not just a story but a series of events unfolding over the past few years, tearing apart the veneer of a state that was once called great. The Chief Minister of the state, A woman lauded for her fierceness and standing up for the oppressed, comes out with a statement, trying to deflect her inability to provide safety to her citizens, but rather questioning the morals of the people going out at night. She is doing so, because the elections are just around the corner and it is much more important for her to show strength rather than surrender to the people’s need and demand for security.

It’s hard not to notice how this horrific incident in Durgapur has barely stirred national outrage. Contrast this with the widespread media coverage of the rape and murder of a doctor in Kolkata last year. That case gripped the country, not just because of its brutality, but because it happened in a metropolis with a vibrant nightlife, targeting someone who represented the urban, educated, aspirational class, people like us, the so-called middle class, who often see ourselves as immune to such dangers. Durgapur, by comparison, is a quieter town, and its victims don’t fit the media’s preferred narrative. When we ignore stories from smaller towns, we reinforce a hierarchy of empathy that leaves countless victims unheard.

This is a story oft repeated, no matter where you live in India. It saddens me more deeply because this happened in my native state—one that was once considered better and safer for women. When will we wake up? When will we admit that our system is broken and that we’ve failed to educate our boys? Why don’t politicians talk about reforms that begin with education and stay embedded in the curriculum throughout our lives? Why are we still unable to deliver justice to victims in a way that actually deters future crimes? Our police system is too broken to investigate these cases quickly or emphatically. Why do we make the process itself a punishment for victims, while perpetrators with even a hint of power or money often walk free? Why is it that, in the name of justice, these cases drag on endlessly?

We often say “never again” after each brutal incident, but the silence between those moments is deafening. The Durgapur case may not dominate headlines, but it should get the national headlines. If we only react when the victim resembles us: urban, educated, middle-class, we fail the very idea of justice. Safety cannot be selective. Reform cannot be reactive. And empathy cannot be reserved for the elite. It’s time we stop treating these stories as distant tragedies and start seeing them as urgent reminders of what still needs fixing. From classrooms to courtrooms, from streetlights to mindsets. Change must be relentless, not occasional.

The Silence on Women’s Safety: An Urgent Call to Action

We woke up to the news of a girl found dead in her hostel room in Orissa. The news hit the headlines not because there was a case of harassment but rather the University made racist comments because the girl was from Nepal. The university rather than investigating the case, hurled racist abuses at teh students as they weren’t indians and threw them out of the university. The headline which caught my eye was on news18 which praised the ruling party and the student wing of the ruling party in averting a diplomatic row. The small publicity piece moonlighting as a headline is below.

The case begs a bigger question though. There is a puported audio clip between the girl and her alleged boyfriend which is laced with expletives and the girl could be heard crying. It made me ponder that why are men from this generation specially prone to abusing women like this. I am not saying men from my generation were any better, but somehow I always felt our generation was much more physical than verbal. Again, that doesn’t make men from any generation better. Physical or verbal, abuse is terrible. The abuse stems from the fact that men feel entitled despite all the talk of equality.

Then I started pondering the role of popular culture in shaping us. For example, the movies Animal and Kabir Singh which were humongous hits or people like Andrew Tates of the world enjoy success. I have watched both the movies in question and have defended them by saying we should keep reality separate from fiction but over time I have realised they do impact us. Growing up reading NSFW blogs or stories, I came across stories where there were stories of women getting groped in public places and women getting excited. Over time I realised the blogs were written mostly by men masquerading as females. Because when I talked to women, not a single woman in my life has ever said they ‘enjoyed’ groping in public by unknown people.

Then it brings me to the next point. A few months ago we saw huge protests in Bengal and many other places over the R G Kar rape incident. The people demanded women’s safety. It all sounds very hollow now. There is to say the least no outrage over this case. The main reason is this happened in one of the non-metro places and this is a case of an abusive relationship. But the outrage is needed because as men we lack the sensitivity. If men had been ‘educated’ well enough by parents and the schools then things wouldn’t have been like this. I feel sad about what legacy or society have we created? Despite access to information, calling this a ‘woke’ generation all we have achieved is more projection of toxic masculinity than ever.

I have no idea how we are going to change as a society, but somehow, the lack of fear from both the state and society has emboldened the men more. Toxic behavior is still endorsed by the majority, and I think I need to change, too, by stopping watching movies like Animal and Kabir Singh, for starters.

The saga of the Indian National Congress

After a long time, I am writing anything political but the events of the past few weeks have made me again have a look at the Indian political landscape. The Indian political landscape is abuzz with the entry of political strategist and mercenary, Prashant Kishore into the Congress and how is he going to transform the grand old party. I find it amusing, to say the least, because a single person who claims to have the ability to transform the political landscape is just another person aiming to grab power. And to buttress that point, I will just give the example of Arvind Kejriwal.

I have a few observations that might go against the current thinking. First, Congress might be more democratic that we might believe them to be. The reason most people don’t realize it because it is the Central leadership which is limited to the Gandhi family. But if you look at it, everybody wants Gandhi’s to be the leader, so that it keeps rivals at bay. Whenever a tough decision to be made in the state units it is referred to the Central leadership. So it has become convenient for the state leaders to avoid tough decisions while keeping the enemy in check. And, all the while the central Congress leadership, devoid of any power is wary of scaring whatever remains of its local leaderships. As a case in point whenever the Central leadership has asserted itself, we have seen people like Jagan Mohan Reddy in Andhra Pradesh and Himanta Biswa Sarma in Assam break away from the party fold. THe job of the central leadership is not easy but they haven’t exactly covered themselves in glory by not recognising the ambitions of local leaders and identifying the right leaders.

The second is the role of Prashant KIshore is going to be. As I had mentioned earlier, I had mentioned him as a political mercenary. The reason is he has worked with almost everyone on the political spectrum, so that makes me doubt whether he is any way ideologically motivated to defeat the current government. The only thing in his favor might be that he is power hungry. But, being an outsider he might be able to effect changes in the grand old party where the writ of central leadership is ineffective. It might lead to an exodus of lot of leaders and might actually help in rejuvenating the party with a new batch of leaders. What Rahul Gandhi might have tried and failed due to the old-guard, Prashant KIshore might succeed.

Lastly, I want Congress to succeed, not because I believe they are much different from the BJP, it is always very important for a country to have a vibrant opposition. Right now what we see is a rag-tag opposition. The only alternative to Congress as of now is the rise of AAP but it will take time, while Congress despite being weak has presence and brand recall throughout India.

Loss of a friend

One fine evening while on a vacation during the Easter break, I suddenly get a call from a friend back in India. I was to say literaly on the top of the word at the highest peak in Germany. I couldn’t take the call but then I get a message which I saw later. It was just a one liner, that Karthick has passed away. It took a few seconds to register.

I called up my friends in Bangalore, to make sure that this is not a prank. How can a 35 year old guy, just ‘pass away’? It wasn’t a accident but rather he went away in his sleep. I was lost for words and I couldn’t gather the courage to call Karthick’s wife who also is a dear friend of mine. I was left pondering what is she must be going through? I didn’t know what to say or do to alleviate the pain she is in and at the same time trying to make sense of things.

I was in a predicament, given the news should I be upset and cancel rest of my trip due to losing a dear friend? But as the old memories started flooding back, I realised that is the last thing Karthick would have wanted me to do and that is grieve his death. Karthick or ‘KC’ as we used to call him was a hardcore Rajnikant fan. I met him first when I started working in my first job in Bangalore. The first few months things were more social than friendship. But slowly we became friends and had a huge gang who would drink, eat, travel all in that order. KC was the guy who wouldn’t shy away from treating us for absurd reasons and boy did he love his beer?

I have had so many fond memories with KC. And how cool he was with loss. I still remember we went to Hogenakkal falls with our gang and the ‘Coracle’ guy poured water on us, trashing our gadgets. KC lost his ipod touch and his Nikon DSLR while I lost my phone to water. BUt he was there all smiles and not a tinge of sadness( or he must have hidden it pretty well), while I was mourning the loss of my phone.

KC , was a workaholic and a person who never expressed much. I had some memorable trips and evenings with him which sadly won’t be reprised. As my wife said, how could he leave without saying goodbye? But when I did think about it , KC might have been a big fan of larger than life persona of Rajnikanth, but in reality he was a person who loved being hidden in the crowd and effectively doing his job. You have left a plethora of memories for me and others to remember you by. KC, my friend, wherever you are I do hope you are still spreading happiness. And, that last goodbye is still pending my friend.

Travels in the time of Omicron- Part 1

So it took me two years, 3 doses of vaccine, and multiple corona tests before I made my way back home to India. I thought after 2 years of the pandemic and the disastrous handling during the second wave, I thought the Indian central and the state governments would be wiser. But was I wrong?

I traveled from Frankfurt, Germany to New Delhi and then onwards to Kolkata. So according to the rules, I had to carry a PCR report, which needed to be checked at Kolkata and I had to self-isolate and get tested after that. When I landed in Delhi, I had to undergo a PCR test after which I was allowed to pass through immigration and exit the airport. After I took the connecting flight and there was no check. I landed at Kolkata airport and again there was no checking. I went to my final destination and again there was no contact from the local authorities. After 7 days, I went to the local health center to get tested and they were surprised that I wanted to be tested despite having no symptoms. Apparently, they were unaware of the rules for foreign travelers. THe person who took my sample, well had no protective gear, even the mask was missing. This was around Christmas when omicron was just about starting to rear its ugly head all over India.

So, it made me realize that no matter which party is in power, there are a bunch of incompetent civil servants who are running the show with no accountability. The political masters are happy to just be in power and milk taxpayers’ money and have no wish to bring any meaningful changes. This happened in West Bengal, a state ruled by the Trinamool Congress and whose leader aspires to become the Prime Minister of India one day. If she is incompetent at the state level, what can we expect her to do at the national level is a question to ponder. Also while I was in Bengal, the number of cases rose dramatically and one of the measures that the state govt. took was to ban flights from New Delhi and Mumbai as they were going through the omicron peaks but, trains were allowed. And our airline also found an innovative way for us to get back to Delhi, They just rerouted us via Hyderabad. So that’s that of the travel ban.

I am writing this blog to highlight the lack of credible political leadership in India. The situation is so dire in India that people are slowly but surely getting fed up with the Central govt and Narendra Modi but when they look elsewhere there is no one credible face to replace him. Hence the people are happy with the status quo something which happened in the first 50 years of our independence when Congress was in power for the majority of the period as all opposition parties were deemed to lack the national presence and the required administrative skills to govern the country. I just hope that the educated people of our country do rise up someday and allow us to make the change for us to really go out on the path to development.

The mystery of covid vaccines in India

Today I write after a month of extreme stress in my home country. We saw heart-rending pleas for oxygen, plasma, medicine, etc on social media. Our governments were caught napping and basking in false bravado. This one month has destroyed the image of an emerging superpower, which was carefully being nurtured by the current govt. But despite all the missteps, there has been one glaring policy that has been appalling. End of April the Modi Govt decided to decentralize the decision-making process for the covid fight. At the peak of the second wave, the states were suddenly left to fend for themselves with vaccine acquisition being a state responsibility. At the same time, the govt announced everybody would be eligible for vaccinations without taking into account the vaccine stocks available or the vaccine manufacturing capacity as no advance orders were placed.

First, I would talk about our homegrown vaccine, Covaxin. They used old and tried and tested methodology of using an attenuated strain of the infecting virus for designing a vaccine. On paper, it was one of the best approaches but the issue was a lack of data. Despite the robustness of the approach, hard data is required to trust the vaccine. Just for reference by January 2021, Pfizer, Astra Zeneca, and Moderna, all vaccines for covid19, released their phase 3 clinical trials data but it was only in March Covaxin published its phase 2 clinical trials data in a peer-reviewed journal while phase 3 data haven’t been released publicly but the company has claimed an 81% efficacy without any peer review.

Second, the approvals for the Pfizer vaccine were withheld because Pfizer wants protection from any claims arising due to the vaccine use while Moderna is yet to apply for certification in India. Why the govt. hasn’t been proactive in soliciting more vaccines including the single-shot Jannsen vaccine is a mystery. Other than that, one of the arguments I have heard is that none of the above-mentioned vaccines have been tested on Indians. Despite my limited knowledge of vaccines and clinical trials, I can just say that this is a pandemic and I am sure many people of Indian origin and Indians living abroad have been administered the vaccines without any major adverse events, and on top of that a vaccine which is safe for use in the majority of the western world wouldn’t essentially have severe side effects. Even an expedited process could have been designed for the Indian context given that Covaxin was approved for use in India despite having no efficacy data.

Third point is the definite opening up of vaccinations for all. The govt. could have managed the whole process better and on this, I can always sympathize with the govt. because given the scale of vaccinations there can be no foolproof manner to go about it. The only thing where the govt. slipped up was ordering enough vaccines. Last week of April announcement gave the state govt and the central govt one week to place all the orders and the vaccine companies to start manufacturing like a billion doses which in an ideal scenario would have taken a year or so. Vaccine manufacturing can’t simply be scaled up so fast.

This pandemic has exposed the lack of knowledge in our politicians and they are busy managing their image instead of solving problems. The Delhi CM, an engineer from one of the elite institutes of India decides to kick up an international diplomatic storm by classifying a Singapore variant of the virus which is the Indian variant in Singapore. Oops sorry, there are no Indian variants because that is insulting the country.

The dawn of a ‘NEW’ New Delhi

Recently the Government of India started work on the process of a 900 crore new Parliament building adjacent to the old Parliament which is almost a century old. On the flip side, it sounds like a very sound decision. An old building may not make sense to spend loads of money to future proof it. But the problem isn’t the new Parliament but wider redevelopment plans envisaged by the current ruling government of Shri Narendra Modi.

Why am I against the redevelopment, you may ask? I am against the redevelopment not due to my political leanings but rather more practical reasons. The first problem I have is the issue with congestion. The new plans envisage not only a new parliament but more buildings which will come up after demolishing some old buildings and destroying a significant green area. Amongst the new buildings, a new residence for the PM, and a huge office secretariat complex to unify all the ministries at the same place as planned. The reasoning behind the whole idea is that it will increase efficiency in the functioning of the ministries. But then comes my question, with the govt. Of India pushing for a ‘Digital India’, the physical proximity of offices sound like hyperbole. New Delhi, the central area despite being very well planned is still choc-a-bloc with traffic and centralizing all offices is going to make it only worse. If anything we have learned from the Covid pandemic is the ability to embrace remote working and it kinda worked despite our misgivings. Hence again I am not sold on the idea of centralizing the offices in a single place.

The second problem I have is with destroying the character of the area. The area is full of public spaces with loads of green cover. The govt. Plans to plant 10 times the trees which would be cut down albeit at a different location. Here we are talking about cutting down very old trees. I will just put in an image of the current vista(courtesy: Newslaundry).

Central Vista (Credits: World Monuments Fund)

Also with the new buildings coming up, p[ublic spaces would be severely curtailed. No on paper, we will have more(?) public space but whom are we kidding? With new offices would come security perimeters because it would be housing some of the most important Govt. officials at one location and in our country, security is more of a sign of status rather than a necessity (Half of our parliamentarians have criminal cases against them). I really don’t care about demolishing many of the ‘bhawans’ as they hardly add to the architecture and many of them are actually eyesores.

But again I believe that the government wants is to create a legacy. It is similar to what the medieval kings upon coming to power, build a new fort and city to celebrate and cement their legacy. So, despite despising the Mughal rulers of India, here we have the leaders of the ruling dispensation is busy emulating them. One of the lasting impacts of such projects is it creates employment. But in the midst of a pandemic, one would wonder that spending 20k odd crores on a vanity project when the healthcare system of the country has been found to be more than wanting makes any sense or not, I will let the readers make their own judgment calls.

The story of second class Indians

A town around 200km away from the national capital of India is a quaint town named Hathras. Hathras was once known for its cotton and nowadays known as the largest producer of hing(asafoetida) a condiment essential in Indian kitchens and also holi colors. So why is this insignificant town the topic of discussion today? Because on the night of 14 September, a girl was gang-raped by 4 men in a field while cutting grass to feed the cattle. Her neck was broken, her tongue was gut and she was strangled with her own dupatta. She didn’t die but fought on for the next 15 days before succumbing to her injuries. In between, she was moved from the district hospital to Aligarh hospital and finally to the Safdarjung hospital where she regained consciousness for a few moments and gave the names of the alleged rapists. She was brave and fought for her life but maybe we didn’t deserve her to live. I won’t talk about caste, religion, or any other similar reasons which are being used to gain some political points.

This story is about the second class citizens of India, who live in tier 2/3 cities of India. In a wintry Delhi evening on 12 December 2012, a girl who was named Nirbhaya for her indomitable fighter spirit, was brutally gang-raped by 4 men in a moving bus, his friend brutally beaten and both were left to die beside the road. Sadly Nirbhaya passed away after fighting on for 14 days. It led to a wave of anger and protests, people across the country hit the streets protesting against the deteriorating state of law and order and increasing cases of violence against women. The media backed the citizens and there was a flurry of debates, opinion pieces, and coverage of the protests and police action. The rapists were finally executed in 2019 after 7 years which was to say the least fast by Indian judicial standards but I digress.

The gangrape of the girl from Hathras barely made the news. I traversed major Indian news sites and the major news channels and was surprised by the lack of coverage. I will start off with the so-called ‘nationalistic’ news sources. Swarajya had just one article which was also sourced from an agency feed while another champion of the right-wing Opindia which has a woman as an editor, failed to have a single article on the topic, but I did find a rape incident report for September in which two ‘Muslim’ men allegedly raped a ‘Dalit’ woman. Maybe for Opindia, this rape was juicier news than the Hathras gangrape. I went to other news sites and I will desist from commenting just have a look at the screenshots.

After the Nirbhaya case, there have been numerous rapes in India, according to Govt. of India stats in 2018, approximately over 33000 rapes were reported across the country. I will list a few heinous cases which never got any attention from the national media. In 2015, in a town named Ranaghat in West Bengal, a 72-year-old nun was gang-raped by men from across the border. In 2016, in a town called Bikaner in Rajasthan, a 17-year-old girl was raped and her body was found in a water tank in the college she was studying to be a teacher. In 2018, in Kathua in the erstwhile Indian state of Jammu and Kashmir, an 8-year-old girl was raped and killed . in 2017 another 17-year-old girl was raped by a minister in the state Govt., it took her almost a year to get a FIR registered, and her whole family slowly killed off. And now this case from Hathras. If you want to read about more rape cases from smaller places in India which are gruesome yet fail to fire our imagination to protest please go through this link.

The sad part is our media is so big city-centered like if an incident doesn’t happen in a city like Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata, Chennai, or Bangalore there is hardly any reporting. The major debates on our news channels are focussed more on drug use by celebrities, Pakistan, or other trivial topics. With increasing revenues of news channels, they are cutting their local state bureaus making ground-level hyper-local reporting a casualty. Now the news channels don’t need reporters, they just need a star anchor and have a shouting match during prime-time and are happily sponsored by major brands and at the same time being justified by increasing viewership of such mundane shows.

The noise over the passing of three farm bills in India

Recently (as usual) there was some drama over the passing of three agriculture focussed bills. The bills were passed easily through the Lok Sabha but when it came to Rajya Sabha we were witness to some legendary scenes of members of the opposition throwing rule books at the deputy chairman of the house, MP’s being thrown out of the house using house marshals, etc. So what are the bills which led to the drama? Let us see.

Bill number one was The Farmers Produce Trade & Commerce (Promotion & Facilitation) Bill 2020., bill number two: The Farmers (Empowerment & Protection) Agreement on Price Assurance and Farm Services Bill 2020. And bill number 3: Essential Commodities(Amendment) Act 2020. So what do these bills are about? These bills seek to abolish the role of the state-run Agricultural Produce Market Committee(APMC), reducing the role of middle-men who would buy at low prices from the APMC run markets and enable direct entry of corporates to secure sales of crops. 

So prima-facie it sounds like a win-win for farmers but why are the farmers in Haryana and Punjab protesting so much? It has to do with the fact that Punjab and Haryana are the major farmers of Rice and wheat. While wheat is the staple of much of north India while the rice consumption historically has been lower. So if the sale is made in an open market, the big farmers of Punjab and Haryana growing paddy are worried that they might take huge losses due to lower demand. Other states are kind of supporting the bill as they feel corporate involvement will lead to better storage, fairer price discovery, and as a result, increased incomes for the farmers. The govt’s role would be only to regulate the market instead of directly involved in buying unsold inventory. And any which ways only 22 crops are listed by govt for Minimum Support Price(MSP) and on top of the list would be paddy and wheat. 

Frankly speaking, I have little knowledge when it comes to the farming sector in India but it does sound like a reform towards a system in Europe and the USA but the govt. Needs to have enough checks and balances to ensure that like in Europe and The USA there are huge farm subsidies by the govt. Due to a fall in farmer incomes. And this is where my objection to the bills come. The Govt. refused to have any sort of discussion on the bills in the Parliament. I would have personbally liked a debate in the parliament where we could have gleamed the actual objections, pitfalls of the bill vs the advantages of the reforms but alas this govt. chose to bulldoze its way through the p[arliament.

The curious case of Delhi Riots and the misuse of the Government machinery

So secondary charge sheets were filed in the Delhi riots case. And to people’s surprise that the Delhi Police is hell-bent on linking all anti-CAA protests to the communal riots that left North Delhi scarred. So many prominent anti-CAA protestors like Yogendra Yadav, Sitaram Yechury, Jayati Ghosh, Apoorvanand, and Umar Kahlid, and Umar Khalid has already been arrested under the stringent Unlawful Activities Prevention Act(UAPA). The funny part is a few days back a doctor from UP Dr. Kafeel AHmed who was arrested under the same act was released upon orders by the Allahabad high court and the charges under the act set aside.

Why have the people mentioned above have been named? Well, they gave speeches that exhorted the protesters to go to ‘any extent possible’ to stand against the law. The police in their hamhanded manner forgot nowhere the speeches attributed to the accused mentioned violent protests. They evoked Mahatma Gandhi, his principles, and national integration repeatedly. It is not surprising that 2 of the names in the list are professors, so if the govt. Can target the intellectuals it can scare the others into meek submission. And this is not even to do with the fact that BJP is the only party doing this.

In Maharastra, the Bollywood actress Kangana Ranaut has become suddenly the beacon of hope against nepotism and drug abuse prevalent in the industry. She said many things which make no sense but the ruling Shiv-Sena govt which is in alliance with Congress decided to respond first a minister abusing her and then the local municipal authorities moving onto her house to demolish ‘illegal’ constructions. Giving a 24-hour notice to a person and then initiating action against a person who has opposing views isn’t a sign of law enforcement but rather a dictatorship. This just goes onto show doesn’t matter who is in power, they love to use power to put down opposition. 

Back to the Delhi riots and there were many prominent personalities who have voiced concern against the CAA law passed in December but if those speeches imply that a stringent anti-terror law like UAPA can be used to harass law-abiding citizens then it would put serious doubt in minds of dissenters. Many of us don’t have a safety net so if we choose to dissent against the govt, let it be policy or law we have to be scared that we might be branded terrorists and our careers ruined forever by an endless cycle of courts and becoming untouchable in the job market. This sets a dangerous precedent and reminds us of the emergency imposed by Mrs. Indira Gandhi, then the PM of India who incidentally jailed many of the leaders from the current ruling party including the PM. Hence it is more perplexing that the same leaders who have already bore the brunt of Govt. power choose to follow a similar path to cling onto power.